Why You Should See a Clinical Psychologist Who Specializes in Psycho-Oncology & Chronic Illness
- drstephaniesimon
- Oct 12
- 2 min read
If you’re navigating cancer or a chronic illness, you know it affects far more than just your physical health. The emotional toll can be profound — from fear and grief to identity shifts, anxiety, and relationship stress. Therapy can be a critical part of your support system, but not all therapists are trained to help with the complex emotional landscape of serious illness.
At City Lights Psychology, we provide psycho-oncology therapy in NYC and specialize in treating individuals and families facing cancer, chronic illness, and long-term health conditions. Here’s why working with a specialist matters — and how it can make a meaningful difference in your healing.
What Is Psycho-Oncology?
Psycho-oncology is a field within clinical psychology focused on the psychological and emotional experience of cancer. A psychologist for cancer patients is trained to support individuals through every stage of the illness, including:
New diagnosis
Active treatment
Recurrence or progression
Remission or survivorship
End-of-life and palliative care
Therapists in this field also work with caregivers and loved ones, helping families manage stress, uncertainty, and grief.
We also extend this care to individuals managing other chronic illnesses, such as:
Autoimmune diseases (e.g., lupus, Crohn’s)
Neurological conditions (e.g., MS, Parkinson’s)
Chronic pain or fatigue
Long COVID and post-viral syndromes
Why General Therapy May Not Be Enough
While many therapists are skilled, a generalist may not have the background to fully grasp the emotional impact of a life-altering diagnosis. This can result in:
Missed signs of medical trauma or PTSD
Oversimplified coping strategies that don’t address existential fear
Lack of understanding around treatment timelines, side effects, and healthcare systems
Minimizing the very real emotional impact of “being strong” for others
In contrast, a chronic illness therapist in Manhattan who specializes in psycho-oncology understands what it means to live with uncertainty, loss of control, and the emotional complexity of illness.
How Psycho-Oncology Therapy Can Help
Whether you’re in active treatment, post-treatment, or caregiving for a loved one, therapy with a specialist can help you:
Process grief, fear, and identity changes
Address anxiety and depression related to illness
Reconnect with your body, your relationships, and your sense of purpose
Manage communication challenges with family, partners, or providers
Build tools for resilience — even during uncertain medical outcomes
Create space to talk honestly about anger, mortality, or hope
Our psychologists for chronic illness are trained to meet you with compassion and clinical skill, creating a space where your story is understood and honored.
Why Choose City Lights Psychology?
Located in Flatiron, Manhattan, City Lights Psychology offers expert therapy for individuals and families dealing with cancer and chronic illness. We provide:
Psycho-oncology therapy in NYC (in-person and virtual)
Caregiver support therapy
Trauma-informed approaches to medical anxiety and PTSD
Collaborative care alongside your medical team (as desired)
You deserve a therapist who doesn’t just support you emotionally — but understands the medical and existential complexity of what you’re going through.
Schedule a Free Consultation
We offer free brief phone consultations to help you find the right therapist for your needs.
If you or a loved one is living with a serious illness, therapy can be a powerful step toward healing — emotionally, mentally, and relationally.
Let us walk with you.

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